Having a crush is like being super happy while a terrible nagging, self-doubting voice shouts at you from inside your head.

You like someone, but does she or he like you back? Wait, did he accidentally brush your hand at happy hour? Or was that a secret signal that he likes you, too?

It’s a whole exercising in over-thinking for those of us who aren’t always brave enough to walk up to someone and ask him or her out.

But there’s another way. Test the waters out with this “From Your Secret Admirer” paper fortune teller. It doesn’t reveal your identity, but it does alert your crush to the situation. And maybe it will make you brave enough to make a move.

Download this PDF, print, fold and wow your crush. Leave this on his or her desk, doorstep … use your imagination.